I think that once you are in a family through marriage, its impossible to just walk away.. As if friendships and emotions were adjustable by the use of a piece of paper and a light switch. I remember I had to beg and cry to ask my sister to unfollow him on Facebook because he would use that against me, he would say he was abusing me because I deserved and see! Thanks FAMILY. Was really confused when my older sister, started during our acrimonious divorce, to help him out. For 18 years her husband was a son and brother to our family. as some currently going through this same thing only Im the ex..Im the one pushed out of the circleI was never given a clear reason why, even as to why she left. I think you have to do what is right for you. Sorry I know it hurts but that will change one day too. Of course it hurts and you should talk to yout ex aline and tell him amd your family alone and at least tell them how hou feel I mean theyre your family and they should be there for you. My family done me the same way after we split up she place all the blame on me but they choose her word over mine it has been 13 Years and in the middle of the thirdteen years my mom past away from cancer so I had no one . I hope your victims become woke to your bullshit, and you someday accept the fact that your perceived value far exceeds your worth. Which is totally fine. My brother came through town last weekend and he called my ex instead of me. My ex and his mother went to my neices Graduation party yesterday. She needs to find out why she still holds such resentment about him. My sister made friends with my ex on Facebook. Now that we are divorced he goes to her house to visit. Having a positive line of communication with her will also be healthy for your children. My ex only appears stable because he has money but he was a deadbeat, absent father and I am not in my 50s, alone and isolated. Went through a similar thing with my family. He is the father of five of their grandchildren/nieces/nephews. I feel boundaries are being crossed and so is loyalty. Im flexible with my Exs needs and take good care of my daughter, who I have 50/50 time and custody decisions. Again I feel like there is alot of missing info. She ruined my daughters life and my relationship with pretty much everyone in my family at this point. I have a similar situation. Also depending on divorce, which didnt sound all that pleasant to say the least. And if it creates negativity in her life its healthy to avoid negativity in a psychological aspect. I would actually suggest its a mothers love thats not sincere for her own child if she cant support her own flesh and blood. Sounds like my Husbands family.There isnt attending holidays bc his ex is re-married and states away.However,they treat her (and by extension her new husband) well.They still consider her family bc she and my husband have adult I sit in the bathroom sometimes for hours and need to vent or Im going to end up in a bad place. I was married for 34 years and my family watched how I was treated and had hash words to say about my ex when I told them I was leaving the marriage. My sister invited him over to her house and they all played happy families for quite a while until he went over to Thailand. You will live if you have Thanksgiving with your kids. Why would you force change, for your own benefit? Reading the comments below sound very close-minded and self-centered. I no longer speak to my former in laws. They lock the door. Youre only hurting your kids, your emotions are not facts, I hope this narcissistic injury hurts, and you owe your ex more money than you could ever afford because youre probably too scared to break a nail or get a job. Your sentiments match mine to a T! That what that kinda sounds like. I know how you feel. However, there isnt peace about it, I miss my family and have no dealings with them whilst my ex husband is still around with another new girlfriend. There is always two sides to a story, and the leaver most often views their ex in a negative way. You will actually need to tell your family how you feel. For me I can no longer have kids I wanted a dozen of them being a mom was the one thing and still is that im most confident in so after not being able to have more being a aunt was second best after the divorce that changed his family took his side and refuse to be a part of our life. 6) He preens like there's no tomorrow. I am tired of being treated like dirt!!!! I contacted him to help me bring my husband back and he asks me not to worry that the gods of his ancestors will fight for me. Your family is very wrong. I did not see that you have talked to.your family or to him about any of this. Thats something you need to understand, and I think youll realize it when you look at the situation yourself. Your family needs to set boundaries. Like I didnt choose the life of divorce. I know he still wants to be in my families life to hurt me. I think it is unreasonable to expect everyone in your family to discontinue all the relationships they have forged with your ex over (probably) years. I was mad! I will never have the relationship that I used to have with my family and some of them, not all, realize that boundaries would have made the whole situation a whole lot better. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. His family NEVER once reached out to me and when we were getting a divorce I was a stay at home mom with two little kids with one of them being severely handicapped. Unless this is your first relationship, youre well aware that the way a relationship ends makes a big difference in the dynamic moving forward. It is the worse feeling. I hate who Ive become. My family. This is so hard. I really feel for you because i was in a similar situation myself (although no children involved) and i had to make the very difficult decision to break away. It completely sucks for anyone to see a person you love and made life with suddenly want you out of it to get married to a complete tool you where previously suspecting your SO of cheating on you with because you where out making money for the family. It never gets easier. My sister invites him to all the family functions which means all my family. My familys take is that its good for the kids to see their parents be civil with each other. Am I unreasonable to want my family to cut ties with him and support me and my decision? Have you told your family that even though you get along with your ex he is no longer a part of your family. I think you should talk to your parents and sister and explain that you are uncomfortable with him being there on Holidays and Birthdays. As my two sisters and their beloved families leave today for yet another family vacation with my xhusband of 10 years, I sit here alone having an amazing pitty party wondering if its just me. I dont have family, finance left because my family didnt want him, still single and believing that someday, I will belong to a family too. It remained, he was in and my children and I were out. Blood is thicker than water and family comes first. My problem is that his ex-live-in lover is still invited to all family functions, and he even invites her to his house for events like the 4th of July, Thanksgiving, and even Christmas. The day the couple got married, they became his family. He says Im an overthinker. He said he felt bad for doing it. I'll like to advise you not to jump into conclusions based on number 1. In fact it sounds like he is a nice guy and her family sincerely likes him. She was cruel about it. He is an EX. "If your partner tends to make late-night calls to his or her ex after you're asleep, it's because they have an intimate relationship that doesn't include you, Masini tells Elite Daily. This has to be extremely confusing and painful for your children as well. What is X??? And P.S. Unbelievable. My kids are way more locked into my exs family and I can barely blame them. Your family is beyond disrespectful in spending that sort of time with your EX husband. I do NOT understand why family does not support family and you and your feelings should be the priority, not your ex. He now has a new partner and she has visited my mothers home attended family dinners and spent Xmas with my family while he was interstate visiting our daughter and grand children. Bottom line family should stand behind family. I do not like being around him since he thinks he can still tell me what to do, how to do it and when to do it. I really needed it. It sounds like your ex has intentionally embedded himself into your family. After reading this, I feel like you are someone I can relate to. My mom and I werent on the best of terms because as a child I whistle blew on her abuse of my sister and I. Am I wrong for telling my nephew how this has hurt me and that if he allows the two of them to come and stay in his home ( my family) I will not come back to visit. However, men rarely understand the impact of certain actions, thats why they sometimes send you mixed signals. Most Helpful Opinions. What is wrong with people? The way you speak about your daughter is disrespectful. I found this forum because I am trying to make my fiance understand why I think that it is weird that he recently accepted an invitation from his wifes aunt (who is like a second mother to his ex) to fly just the two of us out to there to their house for the weekend. My ex-husband was mentally abusive to me, I finally divorced hi, and it makes me sick my family is still kind to him. like a narcissist . He used to get up really early and leave the house without telling me where he was going visit my family and tell them i wouldnt get out of bed etc. That is until he kept trying to convince me to have kids with him. Blood or otherwise, treat me badly & I cut the ties. His ex wife bought the house next door. Did they feel that you wronged him or cheated on him? Every time I pick them up, I hear the stories of what they did. Opposite of love is indifference. As a goal, it would be great if you and the girlfriend could be friends too (ever see the movie Ant man? Sounds like youre one of those people shes describing. I just have to research and find the information to support it. But worse. Thats why its called a DIVORCE you need to get them to understand that. Get a new boyfriend. Even if you are right they are HER family!!!! I just blocked my sister on Instagram because she post pictures of my ex and her family hanging out! I think fictitious, cutesy movies and television shows about exes unrealistically co-existing have given society the impression that all divorce situations can be that way. But Jesus Christ I was in that grown man shoes trust me. This is beyond cordial. Im a very unselfish person. You are not the only person here. You might explain that since he has a girlfriend that he substitute her family for yours, that may mean that your kids go to her familys for Holidays on occasion but if she is going to be in the mother role than you may have to clear this up once and for all. She attends everything. I dont understand because I have a granddaughter from their marriage. I think you are creating unnecessary emotions for yourself. After 5 years of no contact with my family, I reached out the olive branch to my Dad and we have been in contact for 4 months but he still talks about my ex, what he is up to etc. Especially when your Ex is their favourite man. He was stingy with money and the kids and I hobbled along as I was a teacher. Its not an unreasonable expectation, but having read her post and noting that there are children involved with not only her family, but the family of her siblings, it is unrealistic to expect ties to be cut. They not thinking about you, sounds like they want you to be in misery. I feel they should respect your boundaries and you! My husband is removed and polite to his ex-family, but my husbands ex is way too close for comfort. Exes can be friends and have no desire or hope of rekindling in the future. Shes right, everyone else is wrong. I am so lost and confused to why my family is doing/saying this when everything has ran business as usual for the past nine years! Awww. These kind of people seem to have an inability for any kind of self reflection, empathy or change. Personally I think its the best thing for your children to have that closeness even though you to are not together. Learn to be committed, hos. I would recommend some counseling to talk through your feelings about your ex, so you can forgive and move on. I shouldnt have to give them reasons. I listen to their stories and hold back the tears until Im alone because I dont want them to feel bad or think that they are doing anything wrong." You dont have the right to control other peoples autonomy like that. Try to follow your faith and ask the question to God and family in addition to seeking advice in a forum. His sister in particular ought to be more sensitive. My relationship with my parents are much colder than they were, but I at least still talk with them because they only knew about my sister and didnt say anything. With all due respect we arent talking about reasonably well adjusted people who simply get on with exes for the sake of the family unit. I have good friends. A few days before Thanksgiving, I text my sister to ask her if he would be there. My friends I lost and now he is after my family. I would be totally hurt and demand that they stop seeing him. We dont go out of our way to dog out with himbut he will forever be a part of our lives. My kids are grown. they did not marry him or have children with youre ex so they have no real reason to feel indifferent towards him. If they went through an abusive relationship with their Ex, why would you put the abuser and victim in the same room and tell the victim they need to suck it up?! They just didnt care. I cant imagine inviting an ex to my bday party. That is very hurtful. This could well be me, exactly what happened to me. I visited him, send him money, etc., while going to college and working. When his male friend from work calls, your boyfriend has no problem taking the call in front of you. when we first broke up, after a 10 year relationship my sister was there for him, I didnt mind as he does not speak to his family (they are all horrible people). She has the problem precisely because of their unsupportive and downright strange behaviour. I wish I knew how to help you, because I feel what youre going through. He invites them over for barbecues. I too wondered and asked my sister and she denied ever doing so. I dont even recognize myself at all anymore. I havent went to my daughters bday parties that my ex and my mom throw together because my ex hates me. I promise you that youll feel better once you dont care anymore. It's ridiculous to ask you to come to his family events with his ex there. It sounds like your family knows my family!!! We broke up because he was emotionally unavailable and now hes never been more available for them. Terrible. Whenever she brings a new guy on the scene, your boyfriend has a problem with it. My husbands ex wife has caused non stop hell for him, me, our life for the last 6+ years. Good luck. Well it boils down to your family being dysfunctional in the first place. The girlfriend should not even be in the picture.with your family, unless you were in agreement. If his family and I had been close I would have expected to still be close to them after the divorce as well. And when he goes to events, you are uncomfortable enough not to attend. Totally agreeits beyond crazy!! How family can be so insensitive and how they can befriend someone who hurt their sister/daughter so much is beyond me. I expect theyre probably planning on sitting us together. However, your children do not agree. My sister most of all is the worse. Nothing will replace my now adult children, those relationships and What might have been. But I no longer see myself as a victim. I dont expect you to disown your own blood but that doesnt mean we are still cool. I can understand if he was just a ex, but you have children together. The irony of things ha! Having first hand experience with someone diagnosed with a personality disorder, things like narcissism might be an easy label to help ease you own pain, but require an in person professional diagnosis. But now I havent seen him for 5 months as he is seeking full custody so doesnt want to do anything to hurt his case. I said no Im good. I am experiencing the exact same thing. My mother invites him and his wife over for dinner and they get together for birthdays and Christmas and they all exchange gifts. A lot. I confronted my family members about the situation and I was met with resistance and belittled. My only crime was loving too much and seeing the best in people that wasnt there. They said that they were a unit so if they chose not to see me then that would include the children. I felt a little validation there. And if you have and theyre still continuing behaving this way, they really have no respect for you. No sane man wants to make his girlfriend insecure. Where is the maturity in that??? My parents say Im holding grudges and i forgiveness but its far beyond that! I searched for what to do when your family stays in contact with your ex. Its like she cant move on. I never did anything batshit apart to leave a man who I found out since day one had been manipulating my good nature. When she got divorced, I continued playing on a social baseball team that I had been on for ten years, which her X was on as well. Still single, still playing the victim, still stuck in the same mindset still an abusive bully. I care for him and didnt want him to be alone, yet I was the one completely isolated in a new place with no support, but I left so that was my decision I thought. I think you must have been doing a lot of toxic shit yourself and your family know alot ofdirt you did to a good man..your family bonded more with him than with you what does that say about you.blood is not thicker than water thats bullshit.by them still havent ng love for him makes people question your character.. Whatever the divorce situation was, it is still eating at you, since you sometimes feel jealous that the kids get so much attention from the girlfriend etc. But now my father told me that he and my mom want to be friends with him and they dont care that it bothers me! I know you posted this a year ago. "@type": "FAQPage", Your family needs to respect your choice in divorcing him and cut ties as well. My daughter needs me more than I need my mom. Im constantly forced to be in this situation with everyone except my family. You did. How can you tell if a man is really over his ex? But it doesnt mean that everyone who seperate was in one. "Being platonic friends with an ex (after a bit of cooling off time) is completely fine, as long as you respect boundaries and let everyone know theres no chance of reconciliation," online dating expert Julie Spira told Elite Daily. You are unreasonable. Its been over a year now and my family invites my Ex to bbqs, etc and is soo happy that he got a new girlfriend. Ill repeat this good people are not abusive! I too am going through a divorce, later in life, but I understand your emotions. Is it possible youve made veiled ultimatums that they resent and are subconsciously preferring your ex as a form of protest? This EXACT thing is happening to me right now, down to the sister. In my search for a very similar question I have, I ran across it. It is an extremely difficult situation. More than twenty years have gone by my ex is no longer living. She told me that I needed to get him away from his father because she was afraid he would do something because he was so depressed. And that your family dont turn cold to the father of theirs is generarly a good thing. She swore we would never be rid of her. You are not alone.. Its creepy that your ex and family think that it is ok to exclude you and choose him It seems like hes a manipulator and wants to get back at you. I am a better person now and have grown so much. Bless you and stay strong . Try to learn how to accept. That should be the major factor in this situation. She feels just as hurt as I do. Because the sanctity of marriage is important to my husband and me, we lost great respect of my sister. My mother and all the family still stayed close to her. My family all exchanged xmas gifts with him last year, but not 1 gift for my boyfriend who was actually at the party. I am sure their are friends of yours that have friends that you dont care for, but that is not stopping you from being that persons friend if that makes sense. It can be quite challenging when you hear of all the events that he had with his first partner. Everyone is allowing her to make the rules, so she does. Also, it is disrespectful! What I cant understand is how they dont understand they were played. A big issue for me is I feel my new partner isnt fully moving on, has the best of both worlds, and in turn this is leaving me a bit deflated. They need to honor your feelings. I went to counseling to sort out some similar issues and it helped me, it might help you as well. If your boyfriend and his family find it hard to discuss sensitive issues, then youll probably have to be the one to bring it up. The sons Mom keeps asking to go to the events, and they wont tell her no. And yes, he probably loves her, too. think they would ever believe there was a completely different side to him. Ive been with my boyfriend little over a year and a half. You are so dead on when you suggested my x is a narcissist and very manipulative as well. I guess Im just trying to say, Im so, so sorry for the anguish, hurt, betrayal and sadness I hear in these stories and in my own. If you can you need to tell them how you feel. I dont know what to do? This is exactly what happened with me and my ex when we split up. How this made you feel? Im trying to remember and reflect on the example that Jesus gave Even his own brothers didnt believe what he said, and thought he was crazy. Within the first 6 months my ex asked my nephew if he and his new woman could come to visit and stay in his home ( my get away place) my nephew was going to allow this. Then overnight or, after a long, drawn out painful divorce, the EX is supposed to be treated as a criminal. I dont trust him and worry that if I were to let my guard down he would find a way to manipulate the situation. They are already making their choices, which is to involve him in their lives still. He was also invited over to my sisters for Christmas and my husband and I had dinner at our house. Feels great. But that family is now also his extended family. Could it be that this has something to do with it? He has custudy of his kids but eveytine he sees her he gets into his feelings and barelly talk to me just text me if im ik what do i do? Unfortunately she has seen how hurt I have been by my sisters and therefore does not want to be around them either. He truly can't stop thinking of her, however much he may try, and you feel like you're the third wheel. Now suddenly they are all ip in each others lives. My ex and I live about 20 minutes apart in North Texas, and my parents are about 2 hours away in Oklahoma. But family relationships are hard to forge and take a lot of work. The past is the past. Paying for the Ex lawyer is such a betrayal in my eyes. Thats almost what it sounds like some of you have been saying. A boundary should have been drawn a long time ago. Still supportive? My mom told me later that night how she contacted (love solutiontemple .c o m) that did a spell to make my husband open up the truth and make him remorseful to come apologized. Does he have family that he can attach himself to (instead of yours?). My mother has outlived my father so everything was left to her, but my ex being named in that will was a complete slap in my face. We share custody of our kids and they come home and tell me how they have family movie night with my sister at his house every month or how they just saw my brother and my nephews. She has no right to control who they see or invite to their homes. I feel so frustrated that I actually Google to see if I can get a different perspective about the current situation I find myself in. So I found it quite strange she bringing up a topic that we havent discussed. God knows i needed a miracle and directs Dr. Muna to heal my abusive marriage. Very, very selfish person. I no longer try to understand why, there is absolutely no reason good enough. She was posting a lot . One night we had some drinks . Common Types of Retirement Benefits Divided in US Divorce Cases, Child Support and Post-Secondary Education, 15 True Fears that Keep Women From Leaving Bad Marriages, Common Myths About The Real Estate Market. i said wen u get out lets just b friends take it sliw he said no i know wat i want that u we wrote phone calls in all his letter he tell me how much he loves me i brought him out of darkness he has big dreams 4 us hell never change bout how he feels 4 me b in love well wen he got out he told me that he only want 2 b a friend he moving 8 months 2 his mom his ex he talk so bad about got there son taken away 2 state wen he got out he got him bak now his ex rehab has her personal b longing in his closet she doesnt want someone steal her stuff while in rehab.. he sys she didnt put her things in her son cliset his cliset her ex .. that told me they still having sex she over there wen the boy not surpise 2 b round his mom he lets his son c her not let the case worker know plz give me ur advice anyone . This truly hurts to cut ties with my mom and my only sister but I have to because they continue to hurt me with chosing a relationship with my ex husband. Theres nothing wrong with them remaining in contact with him. Stay strong in who you are. :/, Did you even read the column? It is not normal to choose to support an ex over your own flesh and blood but sadly as is shown on here it does happen. Jealousy probably . There is no jealousy because my partner knows that we are totally platonic, and that comfort came about after a series of frank and honest conversations. When your kids get older, they will see it all. Who cares if he's loving with someone else an ex's child, of all people if he isn't expressing the same loving attitude to YOU, his girlfriend. Being traded in and abandoned by your own family and although you shouldnt have to explain your standpoint, and when you do no one gets it. Tell them this hardly to be considered petty, your marriage was not petty. 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